November 10 2014: Court Day

Well today's court day for Little Miss Sunshine. Today they are reevaluating where to go from here. For all I know it could be done with since court started at 8:30. Please please pray that the judge will be able to see what he needs to see through the tiny amount of documentation for this precious girls future and life. Her birth mom has checked off the boxes of most of the things that were required of her and believes that she's getting her daughter back this week but that would be a tragedy since she has not shown that she can safely care for her have any stability for her. We need a judge this morning like the Hebrew definition of judge that you can see in the picture. 

October 2014- Prayers Please

Hello people! Happy Friday. We are calling on our prayer team to lift up Little Miss Sunshine. Today the report gets turned in about her case. We are praying that it includes everything that has happened over the past seven months. We are praying that it has the right information to speak to the judge's heart as to what is best for Miss Sunshine. Please pray for the entire family as November's court date is quickly approaching. She has already been so traumatized through so many different situations and just pray that her heart and spirit will continue to be guarded as new decisions are made at next months court hearing as to her future. Thank you for your diligent prayers and sweet questions regarding this complicated situation. 

August 9, 2014 2 year Anniversary-From my sister

August 2014 Little Miss Sunshine is going camping!

A judge has ruled that she can go camping! Thank you Lord and thank you for all the prayers!!!

Spontaneous worship by Stephanie Frizzel- Louder! Sometimes you gotta tell your soul to sing, even when you don't feel a thing. You gotta song louder, louder!

August 2014 Prayers!

Long story short... Please pray that Miss Sunshine can go on the family camping trip next week. There is opposition to her going. Leaving her with random people to care for her would feel like another abandonment for her and not what is best. Please pray for favor, grace, understanding and for the best interest of this girl to be the focus of the ruling. 

July 2014 Praises

Well, this has been an exciting month. We praise The Lord for a healthy new member added to our family! With a scary entry into the world, baby Rauly and a healthy mama Tobreah are at home doing great. Praise The Lord!

Rauly's cord was wrapped around his neck and was choking him as he was being delivered. His heart rate was dropping from 165 to 40 and not really going back up. Due to the grace of God, quick acting doctors, and the parents' willingness to "Do whatever it took to bring that baby home," he was born a healthy 7lbs 4oz and 21 inches long at 2:09 on July 25, 2014 via emergency c-section. Praise God! Tobs is still a bit traumatized by this. After the craziness of Havah's pregnancy and delivery with Elisha and then a close church family lost their baby girl Paisley 4 months ago, losing Rauly seemed frighteningly close for a couple minutes. The reminders of the tragedy of losing Elisha and the miracle of Havah surviving felt all around us.  As we heard that the baby was having a hard time, we all kicked into panic and prayer. My parents' stomach dropped for a minute after hearing a code being called out on the loud speaker as they waited for news after being sent out after the baby was having a heard time. I cried as we drove to the hospital and heard the sincere prayers for my sister and nephew's life from the mouths of my young sons. Havah heard her son repeat over and over that he had a 'good feeling about this baby' and he was 'pretty sure he'd be going home with auntie.' Then driving up Hospital Drive is such a mixture of so many great memories and the recently nightmarish ones. 

Emotions can get a little 'rolly' around Hoag Hospital anyway now and as the 2 year anniversary of Elisha's birth and death approaches in a couple weeks it seems to be a stronger. So when that boy was born and we got a picture texted out to us in the waiting room, let me tell you, there were tears. Many tears of joy, of praise, relief, and healing. Then when we each got our chance to sneak a peek of my healthy sister and nephew, there were more tears. Happy tears and maybe a few heartbroken tears of what had happened 2 years ago, what happened 4 months ago, and what could have happened that day. Praise God that it was a great day of new beginnings. We appreciate all of your prayers and know that the success of Rauly's birth was in part to the loyalty of many of you in the prayer department. 

We continue to ask for prayers as the trial of little Miss Sunshine's is approaching in the Fall. We pray that the absolute best for her will happen. We pray that there will be some ground taken soon. The grandma may try to get her but it's unclear if that will happen. The family really wants to adopt this sweetie and move forward but we'll see. In the meantime, she is growing and learning at a crazy rate! New words everyday and enjoying life. She loves to sing, pray, dance, bounce on the trampoline, and play with her big bro and sis. Her cousins love her so much and the thought of her not being in our family gives everyone a stomach and heartache. 


Psalms 34:1-9, 17 & 18 
Message version 

1 I bless GOD every chance I get; my lungs expand with his praise. 2 I live and breathe GOD; if things aren’t going well, hear this and be happy. 3 Join me in spreading the news; together let’s get the word out. 4 GOD met me more than halfway, he freed me from my anxious fears. 5 Look at him; give him your warmest smile. Never hide your feelings from him. 6 When I was desperate, I called out, and GOD got me out of a tight spot. 7 GOD’s angel sets up a circle of protection around us while we pray. 8 Open your mouth and taste, open your eyes and see— how good GOD is. Blessed are you who run to him. 9 Worship GOD if you want the best; worship opens doors to all his goodness.

17 Is anyone crying for help? God is listening, ready to rescue you. 18 If your heart is broken, you’ll find God right there; if you’re kicked in the gut, he’ll help you catch your breath.

June 2014 Back to the Unknown

Do you ever have that feeling? The feeling where you just don't know why, but you feel nervous and that feeling that kind of pushes down your joy. It tries to keep a lid on your happiness and keep that smile off your face? It's that not quite butterfly feeling but almost sick to your stomach feeling. The feeling that something bad might happen, that you have no control over. I assume this is what it feels like to be a foster mom sometimes. Because it is sure what it feels like to be a foster Auntie at times! After our family went through so much in the past couple years, the feeling that I talk about is not new to me anymore but obviously it's not one that I like. Some people (maybe you) live with this feeling all the time. I'm so sorry about that. 

Being a foster auntie or a foster grandma or foster anybody who loves that new child in their life not only has this feeling for this foster child, but also for the foster parents. It's tough to see my sister in the familiar state of waiting again. She, and all of us, are continually trusting that the Lord has this Sunshine Baby in his hands. But it's hard. Not knowing if a family member is going and end up taking her in a few weeks or if she's with the F family for a few more months and the mom takes her back. Will she be ok? How confusing it will be for her? These were all calculated risks that the F family took but now dealing with a real life girl is even harder. 

All the not knowing where this situation is going is just like H's pregnancy. It could be this or that. It could be ghastly or it could be a great outcome for everyone... it's just unknown. 

The real prayer request at this point is for a breakthrough in this case. Is it going to be reconciliation or adoption? The F family's prayer is that the courts/ powers that be, would begin start doing what's best for the Sunshine Baby- period. Not what's best for the foster family or the bio parents or the system- what's best for her. It seems like rules and other people's feelings/opinions don't match with what would be best for her.

Another prayers request is that the bio parent will agree to let her go on a couple trips for weddings with the F family instead of having to be placed with ANOTHER foster family while they are gone for the family weddings. My sister is just so stressed to think of her having more change with strangers for a few overnights. This Sunshine Baby has really adjusted so well and they love her being a part of their family. 

Send up some prayers for our 'little' sister Tob who is expecting her first son in July: safe end of her pregnancy and delivery.

Philipians 4:4-9 4 Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! 5 Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. 6 Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7 And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. 8 Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. 9 Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.